He Wants to Watch Me Spank Myself During Sex? My husband and I love to have rough sex. He likes to spank me (playfully) during sex sometimes, which I like. BUT (and no pun intended), his new thing is that he wants to watch me slap my own behind during sex. I find it a little embarrassing but am willing to do it if that's what floats his boat lol. Could he really get turned on/like watching me spank myself? |
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My boyfriend wants to spank me, but not as a prelude to sex, any easy way to achieve this? He really wants to and brings it up all the time even though we've only been going out for a couple of weeks. We're not about to have sex at all for quite some time and I'm wondering how I can let him spank me without lying over his lap. Any ideas? |
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Guys: Is it a turn on for you to spank a girl during sex? What's your opinion on it? |
Honestly YES, but if its in the right mood. Like we are not going to do it slow and gentle and be spanking too. But the hard aggressive just carnal sex, definitely; especially if it gets a good response from the girl.
I would hope if it is a bad response the dude wouldn't do it again. I wouldn't. |
My wife wants me to spank her and call her names during sex? She was never like this before. She was normal but now she wants me to go as rough as I can, slap her, hit her. Punch her in the back of the head, suffocate her. She likes it when I call her a slutt, wwhore, tramp, and everything. It's uncomfortable.
She says things like, "If I don't have 2 black eyes and don't walk funny tomorrow morning, then we're not doing this for another month."
Is this like a mid-life thing?
She's 38. |
haha wow.
I think its just like a midlife thing.
She wants to experiment but tell her you're uncomfortable with it.
Most guys would love this though. |
My girl always liked to spank me during sex. But over time it has progreesed to whips and 2 x 4's.? Now she wants to tazer me before we have sex. Is this noraml? |
| I don't know about 'normal' but to level the playing field, I think you should keep a hammer under your pillow. |
For some reason, everytime I spank my boyfriend he forgets he's in trouble and wants sex. What do I do? I don't know what to do. Also he likes when I scream at him loudly. But I don't like it when he screams back at me. How do I convey my anger without him getting aroused? |
| Does your sex play with him involve spanking? Sounds like you need another form of punishment for him. Maybe you should fart on him since he apparently doesn't like that. |
My boyfriend spanked me during sex and what do I do for the pain? My boyfriend and I enjoy erotic spanking during sex, but last night, he got a little carried away with it. He spanked me hard and very frequently. My butt now has red streaks on it, feels very sore, and it hurts very badly to sit down. What do I do about the pain and how long will the redness take to go away? I thought about putting vaseline or lotion on my butt.
Serious answers only please. |
If it is the surface burn causing the pain - go to the store and get the after sunburn aloe vera with the Lidocane.
If it is a deeper pain it's a bruise and Advil or Tylanol is about all you can do.
In the future have him give you a light spanking and wait a few minutes for the redness to develop. This actually brings blood to the surface and now he can go at it harder without causing as much damage. |
Just what is the right technique when spanking during sex? You know where you get the booty to jiggle and get a good solid "smack" sound but don't leave the booty looking all abused and red. And just how often do women like to get spanked during sex? Like in a rhythm or just random but often or like only when you are about to climax? |
"just how often do women like to get spanked during sex?"
we're all different so the only "right" answer is "whatever you and your partner are both comfortable with". normally we only stop when my owner's hand is too sore to continue, then we have to use the paddle.
"Just what is the right technique when spanking during sex you know where you get the booty to jiggle and get a good solid "smack" sound but don't leave the booty looking all abused and red."
"OTK" or "Over the Knee" is a good pose for lots of butt jiggle.so is lying flat on the bed or a table or such. if the butt is "relaxed" and not stretched taut it will jiggle a lot more. the amount of 'redness' depends on how hard and how many strokes you give. i always prefer a gradual warmup with strokes that aren't too sharp at first, if you just start up at full power i have to end it far before i even start to really enjoy it. |
Guys do you like to be spanked during sex? I like to be a little rough during sex, but I want to kink it up a bit. I like being spanked and having my hair pulled, but i don't really know how guys feel about having it done to them? What kinky things do guys like? |
Yes, I am a guy, and I love it. I went over her lap, and she teased my *** between spanks. I even gave her my belt and bent over the bed.
Know what else I like? I like my balls to be squeezed and slapped a little (not too hard of course) but just enough to feel it.
I like it when the woman takes an active role in sex, like climbing on the guy and holding him down. |
How can I convince my girlfriend to spank me? She commented one day how how she likes to be spanked during sex, saying it felt really good. Ever since ive been thinking about it and wanting to try having her do it to me. Any tips on how to get to her to try spanking me? |
| There's nothing hotter than opening up and telling each other what you want. Do you roleplay? If not, i suggest it, be the bad boy who needs a good spanking...or if you don't, once she has her turn then just tell her, "Now me..." if she's into it, she won't look down on you for wanting the same. my guess is it will open your sex up to a whole new and exciting world...good luck! now bend over!! |