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Is it weird being attracted to older men(sex maybe)? Is there something wrong or "off" about me that makes me attracted to much older men? I really like men in their early to mid thirties...it's strange I know. I don't have any daddy or home issues, I live in a large house in the suburbs with 2 very loving parents which I have close relationships with, a brother and and a dog. I feel like I am completely normal and functional, I'm a senior and I do well in school, going to a good 4 year college next year etc. Not sure if this has anything to do with losing my virginity to a 35 year old when I was 17?
I'm just wondering if there is something wrong with me or if it understandable. | | Is there a reason why?, it might not be "normal" but you can be who ever you wanna be. It's usually more complicated with older mean, I'd suggest to lower the age to early twenties if you wanna be with older men but do what you lke hunny, it's your life. Just be sensible and dont let these older men ruin your life. | Why do people assume that older men/young men relationship is all only about exchanging sex for money? Recently, I started to cool off my romance for a bit. I'm 21 and I was(or still am) in love with a guy named Luis 16 years my senior. We had good sex, he took me shopping, he bought me things and took me out to dinner. But what I felt for him is beyond that. I am so in love with this man; he is so intelligent, romantic, funny, gorgeous and all-around amazing. But he has a man already; that's why its not going to work.
When my friends heard about my involvement with Luis; they assumed that he was only after sex and I was only after money. First of all, Luis is so sexy and youthful looking. He's almost 37 years old and both men and women ages 15-60 try to come on to him all the time. What does he need to pay for sex for? And I'm an independent person. I work, I go to college and I handle all my responsibilities. I loved Luis for who he is, not what he has. Bottom line is, I can do just fine without his d*ck or his money. All I want from a man is for him to love me and be true to me. I don't ask for much.
But how come people always assume the older partner wants sex and the younger partner wants money? | I think it is still culturally unusual for younger people to be attracted to older people.
Plus, there is a great fear of so-called "pedophiles", as if every older man who is with a younger man is somehow a pedophile.
So any older men / young men relationships fall under the category of suspicious, as though it were impossible for young men to be strongly attracted to older men.
Since older men are often not judged by our culture as being desirable, and since the beauty of youth is so highly stressed, many people assume that the only reason a young guy would have a relationship with an older man is because he is getting paid for it or bought off by a "sugar daddy".
I used to be dubious about such relationships myself, but through this LGBT forum, I have been surprised (and therefore enlightened) to encounter various younger men who are into older men. So I now realize that such attraction really does happen.
I entirely understand why you would be drawn so strongly to Luis, and him to you. Clearly you both have found each other to be ridiculously attractive in body, mind, heart and love. | Do you think what i'm doing is wrong? If so, explain why? (freshman having sex with seniors in high school)? Do you think what i'm doing is wrong? If so, explain why? (freshman having sex with seniors in high school)?
Okay, so read this and please don't judge me negatively or call me names like a slut or stupid hoee (i've been called those multiple times by girls at school so I don't need it from people over the internet hahaha)
Alright so i'm a 14 year old freshman girl, (most people say I dont even look like i'm 14, but I really am haha, see for yourself: and I REALLY love seniors at my high school. Like if you've read any of my other questions, you would know that i've been having sex with this 17 year old senior named Omar. He's SO hot and has the cutest face and most ripped body i've ever seen (; and he's a basketball player <3 Yeah, all the guys I go for play basketball. Idk why, they're just something about basketball players that I love and find so hot, strong and irresistible. And then there was this other senior that I had sex with named Fernando, he also plays basketball, and he's super bomb like Omar <3 And after Fernando, I decided to go for Chris who also played basketball. So I hooked up with him too. What's sort of awkward is that there all on varsity bball together haha. They're all 17. And now, there's this other senior named Royal that plays basketball that I really wanna hook up with, but he has a girlfriend -______- If I talked to him, he'd probably wanna have sex, but I don't wanna seem trashy or anything or want his girlfriend to hate me, but then again I don't really care what bittches say haha. So should I go for him? Like the reason I guess I dont hook up with other freshman is cuz they dont know what there doing! Theyre so immature and not as good looking. Whereas the seniors are so big, strong and HOT HOT HOT (; Oh yeah, I got another question, haha it really doesn't have to do with anything, but why does *** taste SO nasty? Uh, giving BJ's are disgusting -____-
So yeah, like I said please don't call me any names! I'm aware of the fact that i'm 14 and that they're 17, no need to repeat it over and over! Thanksss (:
* PS * I dont feel that I should be classified as a hoe, because I only started having sex since September, and Omar was my first, and I had sex with him twice, i've only had sex with Fernando and Chris once, so that's only 3 people. But yeah, of course there are gonna always be people who will call be a hoe and a slut for what i'm doing, so explain why it's wrong then? I'm pretty sure that there are a lot of guys who have sex with a different girl every day of the week and never get called any bad names, instead they get called a hero or "the man", so what makes me any different?
Most people I know think i'm older than 14, haha but i'm not /: See for yourself:
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sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs705.snc4/62525_119168144803311_100001303792949_100023_8083448_n.jpg | You're old enough to figure out what you want to do and who you want to do it with. Other people (especially girls) will call you nasty names, but secretly, they're wishing they were doing it with these hot guys like you are.
What would make this wrong? How would this make you a bad person? Are you lying, cheating, or stealing? It doesn't sound like it to me.
As for bj's, I hear where you're coming from. You may have had some bad experiences with the taste, but you might find it's different with different guys. You may also find that your attitude about this will change over time, so don't paint yourself into the corner as being the girl who won't give bjs.
Meanwhile, make sure you do what you need to avoid getting pregnant and to avoid getting any STDs. | Are their any chat sites where a majority of older men aren't looking for barely legal girls? Yes I tried byfchat and I got a 100 thumbs down because I was the last to know everyone was rating each other on how good their web sex was. I only found one nice guy to talk to. Oh, I'm not Christian either, I just don't feel like being gawked at by senior citizens. Any sites that have a few people who just want to talk out there when I'm bored at home. | I have been on a few under a false name (like you, didn't want the nut jobs out there either). So far no luck. I would suggest checking out something like parents without partners, or believe it or not, Church groups. Some of them have dating programs were you can meet (but don't have to give out address or phone #'s). I would do that and "use lots of time " to get to know some of the men and see if one fits what you are searching for. I would not go to bars, or places like Graig's list (Graig's list killer) is reason enough for that to be a no no. But site where you can chat when bored at home? Don't think there is such a place. Sorry, wish I had knowledge of such a site for you. But the web is a lurking place for predatory people unfortunately.
I wish you luck in finding someone you can relate to an eventually date if your inclined. | Joke: Is There Better Sex For Seniors? Two elderly men were having a conversation about sex:
1st: Yessir, I did it three times last night with a thirty year old!
2nd: You're guyding!! I can't even manage once! What's your secret?
1st: Well, my secret is to eat a lot of whole-wheat bread. I am not guyding!
So the second old man rushed to the bread store.
Clerk: May I help you?
Old man: I want five loaves of whole-wheat bread, please!
Clerk: Man, that's a lot of bread! It's sure to get hard before you're done!
Old man: D@mn!! Does EVERYONE know about this, except me?!! | | Hehe - All the town knows except me oh poor | My Best Friend Loves Older Men? I have a friend who really is a surfergirl, and although she can pretty much get any guy on the beach she's tend to like much older men, at least 10 years her senior. Do you think if she had a night of great sex with a young stud, she would forget about older men? | | auwe, I can't believed you asked this question on Yahoo. Perhaps, your FRIEND, would prefer you stop trying to fix her up with little boy toys, perhaps your FRIEND prefers men with that have something of value in between his ears vs his legs. Perhaps your FRIEND is tired of being an object of desire of little boys that still masturbate in the showers, perhaps you should let your FRIEND select men she deems fit for her favors and not yours. =S Auwe, aole pilikia niele wahine, me kea aloha, but Auwe, auwe, auwe! | I am about to have sex for the first time with an older man ? I am a senior in high school and I am considering having sex for the first time with a guy in philly, he is older and I think I love him but I am nervous can an older man from the area please help me answer some questions that I have about it. Please Respond I need advice thank you | | wait till ya KNOW you love him | Do you think that it's okay for older men to date high school girls, that are? That are 14-15? And they are like 20-21 years old. Throught high school I have seen this.
My best friend did it when I was a freshman and the guy knew her age. She just turned 15 and the guy was 20 years old. Her parent did not see an issue with it. I remember one day I actually went to the store with them and his friend, and it was a playful relationship. This is not the only time, it's like a trend for sophomores to date college men.
I am a senior now, just turned 17 in august and I am like why are these men dating these young girls? They openly talk about sex also like it's nothing. When I was in the 10th grade my friend, another one, would pop birth control pills in class because she felt horney and couldn't wait to get out of school to meet her boyfriend. Is there something wrong and fishy about this?
I think that it's okay for a 19 year old to date a 16 year old, I personally do. But does one year off make a difference like
19 year old man 16 year old girl vs 15 year old girl 20 year old man? Tell me what do you think about this? I am 17 and I would date someone 21, is that okay? | | Yea its okay because most 20-21 year old are doofuses anyway. I was 16 with a 24 year old he was so doofy. I just used him through high school for pick up and drop off from school in his parents benz. Hair nails and clothes for school then when I went to college he wasn't necessary anymore. He deserved it for being a pedophile anyway. But yea its okay. | Sex with a senior man? I am a 40ish year old woman who is engaged in a loving, fulfilling affair with a 60+ year old man. We are considering having sexual intercourse, and I was wondering if there is anything I should take special consideration of before/during lovemaking? I have only been with men my age and don't want to embarrass my new partner by being ignorant of his needs. | some men in their 60's can appear very young, depends on how well he has looked after himself. You always see late 50's 60's blokes jogging and sunbathing on beaches in trendy trunks !
You say you are 40 ish, you must mean mid to late, or you'd say EARLY 40's.
If you were 35 and he 55 would it make so much difference? Go for it, if he is lovely and kind and nice. You deserve to be happy.
I would not take viagra through fear of hurting his feelings. If he needs it, he knows and he will have got his own. Remember the condoms though, he might have been around the block a few times by now! | Older men (preferably) - please answer? I had no choice but to move away from a man 15 years my senior. we weren't in a real relationship at that time, only good friends that strongly flirted with one. we wanted to date, but b/c of outside reasons, we never did. though we did make out twice (no sex). i am the one that wouldnt date him. he wanted to go out a lot, but i never did...b/c i wasnt ready for dating, since i had parents with bad health and just broke it off with a guy. he asked and asked, i always turned him down, but that never stopped us from talking all the time. i had no choice but 2 move 3 hours away months ago. since i left, he claims to have a gf of 5 months now, but he doesnt always act like he really has one. like, when i told him i am moving back in june, he told me i can stay with him until i find a place. he tells me i can call him anytime. he says stuff like "at one time i had strong feelings for you" or "who knows what the future holds" yet he claims he loves his gf when i ask. i dont know what 3 do | | It sounds like he's confused (and lying). The lie probably comes from his ego. There was always some fear deep within him that you might leave him for a younger man, he might have been overly protective for that same reason. I am 56. If I were to date a 41 year-old little would be said and my feelings wouldn't be the same as a 35 y.o. man dating a woman of 20. I am too old to care what people think of my age but a man of 35 is at the age where he still wants to hold onto his youth. The lying part is troubling, it may show the extremes he may go to. If I am wrong about the lying (and I know I'm not) then what does that show you about the respect he has for his present toy? Mid-life crisis in men is real, some of us buy a Corvette, some of us dye our hair but all of us care about our personae until we get to the mid-forties then it doesn't seem to matter any more. Why did you "have" to move? You wanted to be out of physical reach for another reason. More info is needed to reach a better analysis. Whatever, be careful, you are dealing with injured male pride. |
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