My boyfriend is obsessed with porn..? I have been with him since September. I once went over to watch a movie to where he connected his computer drive to his tv for a bigger screen.. It pops up in the lower right hand corner.. "big black juicy anal porn xxx" something like that! I can never forget it! More popped up too. I brought it to his attention and said "Hey your big anal porn download is complete!" jokingly lol. Well we talked about how I have a problem with all of this. I said "If you ever get married i hope you drop it" he says: "It keeps men from cheating". He soon claimed he was watching less and less and then would tell me he's went a week from it which was a big step! ..rght... well he claims he rarely watches it now but if you go into the recent items in the start menu.. which i was going to fish something of mine i couldn't find suddenly etc.. he had all porn like babysitters and anal and school girl type stuff. I would check from time to time to see and yep!! this guy is downloading it constantly.. i even saw his limewire up and he had 25 downloading that day... sometimes downloads would randomly complete infront of me.. Like here's a porn one then a random movie then porn and porn lol. I know he has a habbit if we're argueing to go on online dating sites just to talk dirty to girls.. as he says.. Yes, he once cheated on me through there but i made sure each and everyone one of them was deleted before me and yes I checked and yes sometimes i go into his his history to check from time to time. I don't check out what he goes on.. just skims through to see if there is any of those sites. He has been on every single one of them from singlesnet to fling to hornymatches.com YOU NAME IT, He's DONE it. I'm still in the process of forgiveness.. He does a thing like this again I'm leaving and never coming back. I'm not like most girls and he would regret losing me. He knows it. Id never cheat.. and i certainly don't plan on watching porn of some guy because that's just not fitting right for me. He once ha a discussion with a friend who said "woah pinky?You know pinky? look at her she's dating this dude"-pointing it out in a magazine-.. My boyfriend says: "Oh yeah everyone knows pinky" and he said this with a sense of pride right infront of me. Knowing im all ears since i was in conversation with the two. I chimed in and said "Yup I love pinky she's great! want to be just like her.." GOD he even has favorites and when i tell him the truth about Porn.. he goes in a state of denial and tells me he likes watching it because he knows they do it because they love it and love doing it. He claims he has no attraction and would never really go to meet these girls at convenstions if opporunity strikes! He claims it's just the infatuation of them loving doing that stuff or why else would they be in the business? ummmmm I don't know what to do. I cant bare another discussion of this.. I'm trying to be understanding and even tried watching one with him and it was just disgusting....... and i know for a fact the woman was faking an orgasm LOL
should i be worried he downloads so much in just a matter of a day????
and then i'm thinking... Great if we ended up getting married and had guys.. I can't get a babysitter outside the family because of this porno obsession with him and babysitters. it's the bugger of the moment.
Thanks for reading :(
Nicole |
It is very simple. Do you want a husband who is obsessed with hard core porn? Yes or no.
If the answer is yes, then deal with this. He has already told you that he watches heavy duty porn frequently. And he has made little attempt to change.
If the answer is no, then leave.
Who cares if you aren't like most girls and he would regret it if you left. If you are all that and more, then some other guy would be thrilled to have you as his girlfriend. Your bf won't give porn up for you, and you know it. Why would you want this as your forever? Don't you think you deserve someone better than a porn addict to be the father of your 2.5 guyren? Take your blinders off woman.
Why are you even in the process of forgiveness or understanding? If you were me, I would be gone. Someoe who is downloading porn frequently, going to dating websites to talk dirty to girls after he argues with me, cheats on me, etc. is not worthy of my time. There are a million other fish in that sea. Don't waste your time on a minnow. |
Is it true that white women do anal sex more than black woman?10 PTS!!? I've been hearing and reading that a lot lately.And even when I watch porn, I seem to notice that black women dont do it as much as the whites. |
| Well, it ain't my thing, but white girls are usually up for anything! |
I once saw a very good black and white artistic gay porn film with two attractive men making love. The film? It was very well done, tasteful and erotic. Don't remember much else. It was so well done that both straight men like myself and women enjoyed watching it. I think it involved oral and perhaps anal sex, but I am not certain on the last. |
| Hmmm...no idea. Where did you see it? |
Why does my man prefer porn over me? My man and i have been together for 2 years, he told me from the get-go that he was into porn BUT not when he is sober but under the influence of cocaine, then it gets really bad. His fetish is anal sex and likes the raunchiest black and latino porn out there. A few times, he has kicked me out of the room, locked it and told me to come back later. This scarred me internally like noone's business. I have gone out of my way toplease his sexual appetite and fantisies. Gave up my anal virginity to him and ONLY him. We broke up for several months and during that time he became sober-- i told him how i felt about what he did to me and him telling me that i didnt "have what it took" to keep him interested and he said he didnt mean that and would never do it again and he gave it a good try but now, just last weekend, he did it again. We were to have a special night at a nice hotel which turned out to be one of those places that had more porn channels thatn regular cable channels and i knew i was in trouble. He says, "See whats on the tube" and my heart sank into my gut. Seeing him laying there, whacking off to these gross women -well i cant even describe how it made me feel because im normally ok with porn, and he asked me why i wouldnt come watch it with him and well, i just got sick to my stomache. I went to take a bath and opened the door to turn on the fan and he says," Stay in there another 5 minutes before you come out" i got out and started freaking. He then proceeded to go for it again and i grabbed my shoes and asked for the car keys to go to sleep in the car HE REFUSED, then he said go for a "walk" and look for a coke machine...i FREAKED AGAIN. I then just grabbed a sheet.. and went into the bathroom and cried myself asleep. He woke me up to leave and i was disgusted by the site of him...he knew it and his attitude was very nice towards me.. he asked my forgiveness and i said that if he wasn't so weird the night could have gone so much better and he concurred. I donno why this porn stuff makes me feel so insecure, im not insecure. I keep telling him that if he wants hot porn then i will accept an offer and become a big hussy porn star but he gets furious when i mention that.. why?
What bothers me about it is alot....and i am now having horrible dreams about it--- HELP any and all advice is appreciated, i want to save this relationship because we do have very good sex tofether but it's this little hitch that;s causing alot of internal damage. HELP |
| Sounds like a COKE prob. more than porn ! I also used to be obsessed w/ porn when I used to smoke crack - he MUST give up the COKE or eventually he'll go psychotic & fantasy becomes more real than reality & he may get violent w/ U ! |
Will you protest against Tiger Woods sponsors? He's pretending to care because he's already lost hundreds of millions in endorsments but apparently never cared when having sex with a porn star who favors blacks and anal sex, and never cared when having unprotected sex with up to 20 white harlots who, statiscally must therefore be about 20% with a sexually transmitted disease, meaning 4. |
| Nice to see blind Christian self-righteousness is alive and well in the 21st century. Shouldn't you be bothering the homosexual section? I'd love to see them rip you up to shreds.... |
I think my fiance is gay.? I have been with my fiance for almost 2 years now. I am having unsettling suspicions that he is gay. He doesn't have the typical signs that i have been reading about. Hes not very metrosexual, although he does straighten his 1" long hair.. he does wear skinny jeans.. and he wears an abundance of "v" neck t shirts. He is always on the phone with one of his guy friends, and i mean ALWAYS. from the minute i get home til the minute he goes to sleep. he talks to his friends about gay things, but what he says is that its a joke. they talk about fingering each other and say things im sure would make anyone cringe. i tease him about it and he gets irritated and ignores the situation. since i have known him everyone has teased him about being gay.. and hes had an OVER abundance of female friends that he talks to like they are his girlfriends... he calls them "girl" and "sweetheart".. im just so confused.. our sex life isnt what it used to be.. but i thought that was just normal relationship changes. we have sex every other day.. but he still masturbates EVERYDAY. i only know this because recently i looked on his computer history and found porn.. typical, i thought.. but then i realized that every porn was about girls doing guys with big *****, big black *****, and anal porn. is this just a curious guy? or is this my fiance using me as a cover up? |
| he's a pole smoker! RUN GIRL. |
Sick of my boyfriend watching Porn..? I know the title sounds silly, let me explain. My boyfriend is obsessed with anal and black girls (i'm white by the way) he's told me he likes to watch black girls because of their 'asses' but it bothers me because i can never be white, i am what i am. The anal thing gets me too cause i can't do it cause it hurts but i try and compensate by doing as many other things as i can. Should this really bother me or am i being silly? + When i see how much he goes on porn upsets me too cause i think.. Why doesn't he just come to me and actually have sex or doing something physical instead of watching porn, i'm self consious anyway and don't feel i'm good enough but this makes it worse! It's really starting to bug me. What shall i do? |
| Watch it with him. |
What does it mean that my boyfriend is addicted to hardcore porn.? He rarely wants to have sex, but he tells me he wants us to have a normal sex life. Meanwhile, I find out he's looking at videos of anal sex particularly between black men and white women. He won't talk to me about this stuff and I'm really hurting. |
| the biggest problem with porn is that it presents an unreal image of sex, the way romance novels portray relationships as fantasies come to life...nobody can ever live up to the expectations of either genre, but people who "cut their teeth" so to speak on fantasies often have trouble accepting that their reality isn't going to be like that...he most likely has urges and desires he knows are unreasonable and won't present them to you, but that sweet siren song of openly available porn gives him vicariously what he knows he can't have...unless you can adjust to his addiction i suggest you start looking for another boyfriend, as painful an idea as that may be, but, really, are you doing either of you any favors staying together? |
Does enema always prevent anal sex “accidents”? I’m a strait man. Never tried anal sex because I think the site of you-know-what would probably turn me right off. I’m not squeamish, black kissing is a favorite past time. Just not down with the browns (while gettin' down. haha). Would a fleet enema keep it clean during the act? Or does it matter? Or would an enema loosen things up MORE? Obviously that’s much worse. Girls have offered themselves to me (anally) and I have refused. On the other hand, I’m not sure I’d feel comfortable asking her to enema in order to agree, either. I was under the impression that porn stars do this before anal scenes. Does it or doesn’t it insure good clean fun?? I’m looking for experienced answerers. Thanks. I really WOULD like to do it! Just…you know… |
An enema will help a lot, but it should be done an hour or two before anal intercourse. And that is part of the problem I see in your question. Anal is something you need to discuss and plan for in advance. You can't just fall into bed together for anal, especially at first. She needs to prepare her body by stretching the area (usually in the shower) and that takes several days, maybe even several weeks. One finger, then two. Don't even think about trying to put your penis in her there until she can get two fingers in and out easily.
But anal can be messy even with an enema. You might be interested to know that in porn movies, the actresses don't eat solid food for 24 hours before their scene, and then they have an enema like I described above. Even so, it is pretty common for the film makers to need to some "editing" of what happens during anal intercourse.
If you still want to pursue this and have a willing partner, go about it slowly and deliberately, and please be sure to wear a condom, even if you don't need condoms for regular sex. There are bacteria back there that can cause an infection in your penis (in the urethra, to be exact). You do not want that. Trust me. ;-) |
Question about porn......? What websites are good for bisexual MMF, black girls and anal?
Thnks |
Copy and paste the following into your google search engine. I highly recommend the first 10 results.
"bisexual MMF, black girls and anal"
If you run exactly that into a google search engine the # of results will astound you. |